For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women by Shaunti Feldhahn, Jeff Feldhahn

For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of Women by Shaunti Feldhahn, Jeff Feldhahn -- 192 pages



Women: Complicated and impossible to understand? Do you love and want to please the woman in your life, but just can't seem to figure her out? That was before For Men Only. Now at your fingertips is the tool that will unlock the secret to her mysterious ways. Through hundreds of interviews and the results of a scientific national survey of women, this book demonstrates that women are actually not random and that they really can be systematized and "mapped." In fact, much to men's delight, this book shows that women are actually quite easy to understand and please-as long as you know what it is they need. This simple map will guide you to loving your wife or girlfriend in the way she needs to be loved.



Okay, yes, I read the book for men about women, mainly because I was curious to see how accurate it is. It's decently accurate, but very, very general. They had to make very broad generalizations to make this book work. When it comes to your significant other, you'll have to learn who they are as an individual and what they struggle with. At best, this book will help you consider things that you haven't and prompt you to ask questions that you ought to ask.

For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn

For Women Only: What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men by Shaunti Feldhahn -- 224 pages



What's going on in there? Ever been totally confused by something your man has said or done? Want to understand his secret desires and fears, his daily battles that you know nothing about? 

In trying to explain that the man in your life has hidden insecurities, what they're about, and why he might be discouraged, this book almost seemed to paint men out to be wimpy. But then I remembered, this book is focusing on what women probably don't know about men. We already know that men are resilient and often forgiving, but maybe we don't even know what they are forgiving, because we've never understood their struggles. I found this book helpful, and it encouraged me to do my best to build up the men in my life, significant other or otherwise.